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How can a believing wife help her unbelieving husband know Christ?

Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:1-4
            The apostle Peter told a wife to love her husband unconditionally, to be pure, reverent and respectful (not nagging, invasive and unmerciful).  He told the wife to shine beauty from the inside, a beauty that can only come from a relationship with Christ.  She must be gentle with her lost husband and stay quiet at times when she wants to speak, especially on the topic of his faith.
            God loves that husband and the Holy Spirit is doing everything in His power to encourage that husband to submit to God.  The husband learns submission by his earthly example—his wife.  Respect the husband even while knowing he’s wrong about God.
            Prayer and submission are a wife’s greatest weapons.