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Why don’t husbands submit to their wives?

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church—for we are members of his body. Ephesians 5:25-30
            The husband must submit to the Lord and be the head of his household.  That calls for responsibility on the man’s part.  And look what comes with the position—he must love his wife, build her up, present her to God better than how he received her, sacrifice for her and, if needed, die for her. 
            The husband is submitting to the Lord which is a difficult and a very high responsibility.  He can’t submit to his wife for direction when his eyes are on God first.
            A husband involves his wife in decision making, valuing her input, loving her companionship, but ultimately he is held responsible for how the marriage goes.