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Does the Bible support King Xerxes handling of his disrespectful queen?


On the seventh day, when King Xerxes was in high spirits from wine, he commanded the seven eunuchs who served him—Mehuman, Biztha, Harbona, Bigtha, Abagtha, Zethar and Karkas— to bring before him Queen Vashti, wearing her royal crown, in order to display her beauty to the people and nobles, for she was lovely to look at. But when the attendants delivered the king’s command, Queen Vashti refused to come. Then the king became furious and burned with anger.  Esther 1:10-12
Then Memukan replied in the presence of the king and the nobles, “Queen Vashti has done wrong, not only against the king but also against all the nobles and the peoples of all the provinces of King Xerxes. For the queen’s conduct will become known to all the women, and so they will despise their husbands and say, ‘King Xerxes commanded Queen Vashti to be brought before him, but she would not come.’ This very day the Persian and Median women of the nobility who have heard about the queen’s conduct will respond to all the king’s nobles in the same way. There will be no end of disrespect and discord. Esther 1:16-18
            A few things to keep in mind when reading this story.
            King Xerxes did not follow God.  He was a Persian king with a different set of morals.  While wives should respect her husbands, this incident was not about marriage responsibilities, but about a drunken husband and partying wife trying to see eye-to-eye.  They made stupid mistakes.
            The Bible is not endorsing this handling of disrespect, merely reporting what happened.
            However, God moved amongst all these bad decisions to put a beautiful Jewish woman in the king’s household.   Xerxes and Vashti are not the models of godliness being reported in the book of Esther.  Esther is the one whose character stands out.