Make an effort. . .

Talk to her about things she wants to talk about.

Hang out in places where she hangs out and be interested in the things that interest her.

Be kind and respectful to her.

Be patient with her no matter she says to you. If it’s hurtful, just smile, focusing on the end goal of getting closer.

Be persistent, never giving up on her.

Love her no matter what.

These are all the things God does with us.